As a parent, one thing that truly amazes me is how passionate and invested I get with my children's interests. Maybe it's part of my personality-I easily empathize with emotions. For example, a few years ago, I never thought I would know, let alone
care about all things dinosaur. But when my oldest son became obsessed with paleontology, I found myself riding his shirt-tail all the way through the Mesozoic Era! I know for many parents, it's hard to let your kids become their own person, especially when they are so young and impressionable. I still struggle with it occasionally. But when I came across the following quote, it really left an imprint on me. Which brings me to today's Monday Mantra:
Luckily, I had a great example of this in my dad. As long as I can remember, I have loved to write. At a young age, I told my dad I wanted to be a famous author. Instead of giving me a reality check, he told me I had to start small. He encouraged me to enter the school's reflections contest and win. Yes, he told me I needed to win. (I did, by the way.)
My dreams and goals vastly changed as I meandered through adolescence, teenage, and on to my adult years. Through it all, my dad never made my dreams seem too big or too far out of reach - no matter how crazy they may have been.
As I watch my own children find new interests and try new things, I sometimes find myself wanting to steer them a titch one way or another. And I think at their young ages, that's okay. I have no experience with teenagers, and I suppose once things start to get serious, you will need to make sure they understand the pros and cons of their future choices. But for now, I sure enjoy watching my son eat, sleep, and breathe dinosaurs. And I can't wait to see the signature my children create.
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